Betrayal is a sad act for the person betrayed and the betrayer. It is not easily forgiven and has the tendency to end friendships, tarnish reputations or turn friends into enemies. Betrayal is the breaking of a social contract (trust, or confidence) that causes conflict between individuals or between corporations. Have you ever been betrayed? Have you ever felt that someone you trusted acted against you or aided your enemies? Have you ever been “stabbed in the back”? How do you look upon people who betray their friends?In-directly I got betrayed by a friend so-called buddy. He dug a hole and asked me to walk in-straight to it. I don't even care about how he treated his messy relationship but..getting me into his playboy game is really too much. He hurted most of the girls even caused peoples failed in marriage. What can I say, I still treated this worst man as a friend even I provided him moneys and foods when his financial been freezed by Bank due to bad credit-card debts. Some of my friends who knew his history, have no respect on him at all even his colleague. No matters how long I've been friends with him, there's NO telling what he's thinking and when he's going to betray you. To peoples who don't know his life-style, has no idea that he's a bastard. A Bastard with all the bad intentions in his mind. Be careful of how much trust you put in your friends and who you let in your circle of trust. People are mainly self serving and your interests and theirs may not always be in line. This is what I've learned this year.
Previously kindred spirits can become sworn enemies because of broken trust. This painful emotional of mine blows to be betrayed by a trusted friend. The pain of betrayal can cause maniacal acts of revenge.
Trust is like a balloon. One prick and it is gone. It is very easy to make enemies in former friends by breaking trust. The fear of broken promises or betrayal can reduce the quality of friendships. It is not easy to bounce back from betrayal but forgiveness, punishment, and remorse can help in the healing process.
One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though … betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. -Steven Deitz-
